Category Archives: Pondering parenting

the scream

He calls up screaming at her , cursing , using plenty of F words  How dare i write an email to the school principal telling of the father’s domestic abuse and violence? who did i think i was? then came … Continue reading

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my mother ,myself-confession of a lack of love in the morning

she  recalls standing with her new born daughter, wrapped in a blanket, standing at the top floor of the maternity hospital building which just happened to be very high , very not typical for Swiss buildings and houses .. It was … Continue reading

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parents -learn to let go

Dear frustrated confused Parents of nearly adult children ,,  if your children do not appreciate what it is like to have parents who care about them, then let them go, let them make their own mistakes; destroy what you tried to … Continue reading

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Signs

” I will speak to you in stone-language (Answer with a green syllable) I will speak to you in snow-language ( Answer with a fan of bees)  I will speak to you in water -Language (Answer with a canoe of lightning) … Continue reading

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some things

Some things make me weaker :  Thinking AND writing about a former  friend ,  writing and contacting an old friend  asking;  can you care about me NOW ?  Some things make me stronger;  Not thinking about why bad things happen … Continue reading

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It’s hard for me to say

To say sorry  To say “Thank you “ It’s been so very nice knowing you, are probobly the most difficult words to say  not just today  when the snow falls as a reminder  that nothing stays but the words linger … Continue reading

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a letter to a child in divorce distress

Dear child,  Those  stories about  step parents abandoning their children in the  snow filled woods  , the mean step mother  that hands your poison apples turn out to be  true  after all but then  your own family can abandone you … Continue reading

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