Category Archives: relationship

The Jewish wedding i never had

Why did i not have a Jewish wedding ? I didn’t have a Jewish man to marry; i broke up with one man who actually gave me a ring but placed a condition that i would complete a phD and … Continue reading

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“Place me like a seal over your heart, like a seal on your arm; for love is as strong as death, its jealousy unyielding as the grave. It burns like blazing fire, like a mighty flame.” -Song of songs, King … Continue reading

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Turns out

Today it turns out that it is alright to sometimes wear your heart on the sleeve, so while discussing the parameters of my work, i realised that people who appear tough are sometimes just weary of having had bad experiences, … Continue reading

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Don’t talk to me

Don’t talk to me  you are ruining my image  of a misanthrope , Don’t spend time with me  there are too many complex corners  folded in my soul  so please allow me  to remain behind my wall..  

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Watch “יצחק קלפטר – נפגשנו” on YouTube

מילים לשירים ואקורדים של יצחק קלפטר Translated from Hebrew to English by Seagull L.  נפגשנו יצחק קלפטר מילים ולחן: יצחק קלפטר נפגשנו, שמש פנתה לים   we met, the sun set in the sea השמיים צבע אותם אמן    the … Continue reading

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The lifesaver

Imagine this : Standing on a ship  throwing someone rope only to have discovered  once the drowned climbs aboard, you know, they pull you down  to the depths  of the ocean below .     Rescuer Syndrome Rescuer Syndrome – … Continue reading

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profiting from pain

“For you I was the flame Love is a losing game Five story fire as you came Love is losing game One I wished, I never played Oh, what a mess we made And now the final frame Love is … Continue reading

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my mother ,myself-confession of a lack of love in the morning

she  recalls standing with her new born daughter, wrapped in a blanket, standing at the top floor of the maternity hospital building which just happened to be very high , very not typical for Swiss buildings and houses .. It was … Continue reading

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love recognised

Love does this , love does that , we have heard  about it in the past , but it is what it is  and it is not  what it is not  inside;  real insisting,  impolite but agreed upon by both sides!  

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The greatness of gratitude

There’s this story that when we are grateful and say thank you for what we HAVE, then the universe, or G-d, or whatever higher forces you envision or just think are magnetic forces etc. decide to give you more of … Continue reading

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